Remembering Christmas Eves of Long Ago
Christmas
Eve was a magical time during my childhood in the 1960’s. This was a time
before Christmas became such a commercial, secular holiday with the seasonal
focus on rampant commercialism; when children received gifts only for Christmas
and birthdays; when people bought something when they needed it and purchased
new clothes for a special occasion or the start of the school year or at the
semi annual shoe sale.
Every
year as long as I can remember our family traipsed down the block from our
house to that of my grandparents, who lived on the corner across the street
from the rectory of St. Bridget’s Church in Logansport, Indiana to enjoy
Christmas Eve dinner. Sometimes dinner
was served on my grandmother’s pre-war Noritake china, which I used for
Thanksgiving this year. The meals I remember most vividly are those of the spaghetti
served on my aunt’s pink /black square bake-lite dishes, pull apart rolls, and
servings of cranberry relish. Our local relatives surrounded the drop-leaf
table. In the earliest years, seated
around the table would be my grandparents, my mother’s sister, Aunt Kate (who
always had Hershey bars and Archway cookies and long yellow fingernails from
nicotine), Uncle Mart, Aunt Lerna, and Marguerite and Al from across the alley
who had a beautiful white dog that barked a lot and a Victorian gazing ball in
their back yard.
After
dinner my parents piled us into the car and we drove around the town looking at
the outdoor Christmas decorations. We always looked forward to seeing one house
in the county that put on a show worthy of Clark Griswold, long before
extravagant or excess became the norm. Then we returned to my grandparent’s
house to find Santa had been to visit, depositing an abundance of treasures,
such as my first Barbie (the Barbie with the 3 wigs) and Chatty Kathy (who
spent a great deal of time at the doll hospital). We always wondered with awe
how Santa knew we would be visiting grandma & grandpa? My aunt filmed all
of the glamour in state of the art 8mm! And we thought it was an amazing treat
to watch the previous year’s movies with the sound of the projector churning to
the jerky movements on the screen.
These
are still the warm & joyous memories of childhood. We felt so truly blessed
to have two Christmas celebrations. For after we left our Christmas Eve
extravaganza, we headed home, were tucked into bed, and waited with excitement and
anticipation for that second visit from Santa Claus on Christmas morning.
As
Bob Hope used to sing at the conclusion of every TV special ~Thanks for the
Memories.
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